Modern Christianity says
"God created me and He doesn't make mistakes."
"Deny yourself, take up your cross and follow Him
and He will transform you into His image
so that you can become who you were meant to be,"
Then He said to them all, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it. For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and is himself destroyed or lost? -Luke 9:23-25